Comments on: What Does Dinner Mean? http://solitarymama.com/2010/07/what-does-dinner-mean/ In your snuggie and making you itch Tue, 07 Feb 2012 02:00:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Todd Jacobs http://solitarymama.com/2010/07/what-does-dinner-mean/#comment-218 Todd Jacobs Tue, 13 Jul 2010 05:07:47 +0000 http://solitarymama.com/?p=195#comment-218 I think I am too passive in that situation when invited by a woman or a woman leads me to invite her. I do have female friends married and single. I think when a female friend is single I always let them dictate the type of dinner experience. Of course if she is married i want no part of bad karma so def no moves at all and co workers never. I use to teach classes about sexual harrassment--not how to do it but how to stay out of trouble and not do something stupid like ask a co-worker on a date or worse. Great topic and great presentation. I guess why that ends up with me being a nce guy and considered not outgoing enough. I have enough confidence though that I don't need a relationship until the time is right. When the right person comes along it will click and that will be that. Love reading your take on things.. Hope you decide to write more often on your site. I think I am too passive in that situation when invited by a woman or a woman leads me to invite her. I do have female friends married and single. I think when a female friend is single I always let them dictate the type of dinner experience. Of course if she is married i want no part of bad karma so def no moves at all and co workers never. I use to teach classes about sexual harrassment–not how to do it but how to stay out of trouble and not do something stupid like ask a co-worker on a date or worse. Great topic and great presentation. I guess why that ends up with me being a nce guy and considered not outgoing enough. I have enough confidence though that I don’t need a relationship until the time is right. When the right person comes along it will click and that will be that. Love reading your take on things.. Hope you decide to write more often on your site.

]]> By: Jake http://solitarymama.com/2010/07/what-does-dinner-mean/#comment-217 Jake Tue, 13 Jul 2010 00:47:58 +0000 http://solitarymama.com/?p=195#comment-217 I think that if a female coworker ask me if I want to eat lunch with her, I would not take it as she making an advance on me. Now if she ask me to go out for dinner, I wouldn't be so sure about her seeking just to have dinner. I would believe dinner the move made to take us away from everybody else and bring us together into a more intimate atmosphere. The expectations doesn't need to be sex, but defenity there is more than just eating a meal. I would think she wants to meet me in a more personal level, which if she isn't married and attractive, I wouldn't mind exploring. Having a boyfriend or else doesn't make a difference for many. At times it increases the excitement by adding a touch of challenge to the whole game.  To me if I ever ask a woman to join me for dinner will be if I am somehow attracted to her. It could be physically or mentally. In the event of her accepting my invitation will mean that she is, in her own way, interested. I mean, we are all grown ups and know what this means. Dinner Between two people of opposite sex is an intimate time in a place where the lights are dimmed and you can perceive a little romance.   When I was a child I would have never thought of a girl having an interest on me because she asked me out to dinner. At that time it was the movie theater the hint to show an interest between a boy and a girl. Growing out of childhood dinner became that intimate place where you take women old enough to at least kiss if the opportunity shows. But that is just what my opinion is and I am sure that many other people could agree or disagree with it. I don't know. What would you say if I ask you to join me for dinner? I will be awaiting on your answer... I think that if a female coworker ask me if I want to eat lunch with her, I would not take it as she making an advance on me. Now if she ask me to go out for dinner, I wouldn’t be so sure about her seeking just to have dinner. I would believe dinner the move made to take us away from everybody else and bring us together into a more intimate atmosphere. The expectations doesn’t need to be sex, but defenity there is more than just eating a meal. I would think she wants to meet me in a more personal level, which if she isn’t married and attractive, I wouldn’t mind exploring.

Having a boyfriend or else doesn’t make a difference for many. At times it increases the excitement by adding a touch of challenge to the whole game.  To me if I ever ask a woman to join me for dinner will be if I am somehow attracted to her. It could be physically or mentally. In the event of her accepting my invitation will mean that she is, in her own way, interested. I mean, we are all grown ups and know what this means. Dinner Between two people of opposite sex is an intimate time in a place where the lights are dimmed and you can perceive a little romance.  

When I was a child I would have never thought of a girl having an interest on me because she asked me out to dinner. At that time it was the movie theater the hint to show an interest between a boy and a girl. Growing out of childhood dinner became that intimate place where you take women old enough to at least kiss if the opportunity shows.

But that is just what my opinion is and I am sure that many other people could agree or disagree with it. I don’t know. What would you say if I ask you to join me for dinner? I will be awaiting on your answer…

]]> By: Meya http://solitarymama.com/2010/07/what-does-dinner-mean/#comment-216 Meya Mon, 12 Jul 2010 23:43:21 +0000 http://solitarymama.com/?p=195#comment-216 Lunch... Dinner... To me is a personal and intimate experience. I mean this is where your true nature will most likely appear... Mannerism, etiquette, finicky taste, etc. That being said, to be asked to dinner by the opposite sex may not always mean, "let's jump in the sack" per se but it is definitely asking for more than innocence. The gesture is typically more of generosity with an idea if getting more personal... But I believe there is definitely intent!! Intent for what you may ask? Well... Let's leave that open for discussion Lunch… Dinner… To me is a personal and intimate experience. I mean this is where your true nature will most likely appear… Mannerism, etiquette, finicky taste, etc. That being said, to be asked to dinner by the opposite sex may not always mean, “let’s jump in the sack” per se but it is definitely asking for more than innocence. The gesture is typically more of generosity with an idea if getting more personal… But I believe there is definitely intent!! Intent for what you may ask? Well… Let’s leave that open for discussion

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